Why are girls so stuck up at clubs?

so i go out clubbing pretty often, mainly due to the fact that i like to dance. i cant really dance by myself, or with my guy friends, or nay other guy... cus then id look ridiculous (unless im at a gay club then it wouldn't be that bad) but as i was saying, i have to ask a girl right. but like 90% of the girls if not higher always say NO! sometimes ill be lucky if they look at me before they actually reject me. and its all girls even the fat and ugly ones. and i thought it was just cus i was ugly but, i see all guys get rejected... even girls allready on the dance floor dancing say no, they already dancing why not dance with a guy...so my question is WHY? why do girls do that?!?! whats the point of going clubbing if your gona sit off to the side and watch, or just dance with your friend all night, which i suppose it can be fun for a while, but come now ...is there any special way to ask to dance or like anything i should do?

Why are girls so stuck up at clubs?

because they are tired of being hit on by losers when they are looking for a prize.

Why are girls so stuck up at clubs?

well, its because with the way they dance now, guys really do look like dorks out there. No one wants to watch them, but watching girls grind away has its attractions. You just wait around and at the end of the night maybe you could pick up some chick and take her home.

Why are girls so stuck up at clubs?

I am a girl, and I love going to nightclubs and dance! I dance with anyone and I dont care who looks! If people don't like it, then I figure it is their problem!!

I do not know if there is a special way to ask someone if they want to dance, most people who ask me just say "you wanna dance?" and I go "ok, lets get to it": and I start grooving along! It ain't hard to have a good time!

GIRLS, START LETTING LOOSE AND HAVE A GOOD TIME. YOU MIGHT ACTUALLY ENJOY YOURSELF!

Dude, next time you go dancing, ask me, I'm always available for a dance or two. (or five, depending on how drunk I am, ha ha ha)

Why are girls so stuck up at clubs?

Why don't you just dance by yourself?

Why are girls so stuck up at clubs?

Who cares? Most of them are coalburners anyway. If you want a real woman, a club is not the place to get one (unless you want a quick BJ).

Why are girls so stuck up at clubs?

Wrong time wrong place? Better luck next time! Cheers.

In tha Club (tips from him and her)?

I don't know if you guys noticed that in the club, but i saw a lot of guys (ave. guys) who don't know how to talk with girls in the club. And sometimes don't know how to dance! Anyway, i thought to ask this important question, and i am quite sure that it would be so helpful :D

Since we will have both Fe/Male opinion, I will divide my question into two part.

Male:

You are in a club, and you saw this girl (in the bar, dancing .... etc.) and you want to know her (hook her up). What would be some good ways to start up a conversation with her?

Female:

You are in a club, and you want to have some fun. So in your mind, there is big chance for you to meet someone that you really like. What would be a good way for a boy (that you really like) to start up a conversation with you? Also, some bad things ... from your own experience.

Thanks to you all

In tha Club (tips from him and her)?

I've had guys ask me to dance, and after that we just started talking. They didn't use any lines, and most importantly they didn't dance all up on me! I don't generally recommend dating people you meet in clubs, but it's possible. As for what not to do...this dude started dancing with my friend once, and he was holding onto her so tight she dropped her cigarette and he wouldn't let her pick it up!! Then he kept trying to put his hands down her pants!! I'm not a fighter but I almost was that night!

"I've been a bad bad girl and theres nothing i can do" Do u know this song I think th

My friend and I used to love dancing to this song in the techno room (in our night clubbing days) around about 2000/2001/2003 and no matter where I've looked even song lyric search engines can i find who sang it and the songs actual title pleasehelp I'm dying to listen to it again please dont post links to search engines unless its straight to song page as I have already tried searching and thats why I'm asking you guys for help:)

"I've been a bad bad girl and theres nothing i can do" Do u know this song I think thats how the chorus starts

It could be..

Pink - Dear Diary

Dear, dear diary, I want to tell my secrets

Cuz you're the only one that I know who'll keep

them

Dear, dear diary, I want to tell my secrets

I know you'll keep them, and this is what I've

done

I've been a bad, bad girl for so long

I don't know how to change what went wrong

Daddy's little girl when he went away

What did it teach me? That love leaves

Dear, dear diary, I want to tell my secrets

Cuz you're the only one that I know who'll keep

them

Dear, dear diary, I want to tell my secrets

I know you'll keep them, and this is what I've

done

I've been down every road you could go

I made some bad choices as you know

Seems I have the whole world cradled in my hands

But its just like me not to understand

Dear, dear diary, I want to tell my secrets

Cuz you're the only one that I know who'll keep

them

Dear, dear diary, I want to tell my secrets

I've been a bad, bad girl

I learned my lessons

I turned myself around

I've got a guardian angel tattooed on my shoulder

She's been watching over me

Dear, dear diary, I want to tell my secrets

Cuz you're the only one that I know who'll keep

them

Dear, dear diary, I want to tell my secrets

I've been a bad, bad girl

Dear, dear diary, I want to tell my secrets

Cuz you're the only one that I know who'll keep

them

Dear, dear diary, I want to tell my secrets

I've been a bad, bad girl

I've been a bad, bad girl

"I've been a bad bad girl and theres nothing i can do" Do u know this song I think thats how the chorus starts

It sounds like "Criminal" by Fiona Apple:

I've been a bad bad girl

I've been careless with a delicate man

And its a sad sad world

When a girl will break a boy

Just because she can

Don't you tell me to deny it

I've done wrong and I want to

Suffer for my sins

I've come to you 'cause I need

Guidance to be true

And I just don't know where I can begin

What I need is a good defense

'Cause I'm feelin' like a criminal

And I need to be redeemed

To the one I've sinned against

Because he's all I ever knew of love

Heaven help me for the way I am

Save me from these evil deeds

Before I get them done

I know tomorrow brings the consequence

At hand

But I keep livin' this day like

The next will never come

Oh help me but don't tell me

To deny it

I've got to cleanse myself

Of all these lies till I'm good

Enough for him

I've got a lot to lose and I'm

Bettin' high

So I'm beggin' you before it ends

Just tell me where to begin

What I need is a good defense

'Cause I'm feelin' like a criminal

And I need to be redeemed

To the one I've sinned against

Because he's all I ever knew of love

Let me know the way

Before there's hell to pay

Give me room to lay the law and let me go

I've got to make a play

To make my lover stay

So what would an angel say

The devil wants to know

What I need is a good defense

'Cause I'm feelin' like a criminal

And I need to be redeemed

To the one I've sinned against

Because he's all I ever knew of love

What I need is a good defense

'Cause I'm feelin' like a criminal

And I need to be redeemed

To the one I've sinned against

Because he's all I ever knew of love

How to get into a club underage?

so im 15, i look older though (thankgod) and for nye i wana get into a nightclub at sydney,,ok probably all of u r judging me saying im too young. trust me im not. im not a bad girl just really want to try this.

fake id im done 4 i cant get 1 4 personal reasons.

so any other suggestions??. (its guna b me n my best friend on the night.)

i've heard some like for instance starting to cry to the bouncer damanding you need to go in becoz your friend is in there doing sumthing bad..blah..blah..blah

anything else?

How to get into a club underage?

give the guy at the door a bj and your through!..no maby get someone thats in to open the backdoor if their is one...

How to get into a club underage?

dont be stupid . There is nothing that great about clubs , wait till your 18. Your not a bad girl you a very silly girl because when you turn 18 you would have done everything and will be bored. You wont be able to get into a club

How to get into a club underage?

I know you think this is a good idea but it really isn't. Think about the possible out come. You could get caught, have a record, and possibly not get into college. It could also stop you from getting a job or car insurance. The other possibility is that you could get raped by a much older man while you are there. Is all this really worth it for one night of dancing? Find an under 21 club instead, go to the movies, find something else to do that won't have such an effect on your future.

How to get into a club underage?

Sure, get in underage, get drunk off two drinks, go home with a guy, your parents somehow find out and the poor guy goes to prison cos you just wanted to act older then you are?

How to get into a club underage?

If you look older than you willl be fine how else will they find out??

How to get into a club underage?

you're basically going to have to know someone who works there like the bouncer or something

How to get into a club underage?

Don't try to go into a club underage....you're just asking for trouble.

How to get into a club underage?

Go in with someone old enough to be your father it usually works, trust me!

How to get into a club underage?

BRIBARY

How to get into a club underage?

try waiting a coule more years

How to get into a club underage?

um, i did go to a club when i was 17 and some idiot bouncer was really lousy at math but i dont think you really can get into any club underage because they usually ask for a state id. you and your best friend can do something instead of try to sneak into a club like host a party or something like that. sorry i didnt give you the best answer. good luck on that.

If a girl goes out to a club, how likely is it that she cheats if she had a fight right b4 she left?

Just curiosity. Say your gf goes out with her freinds once or twice a month on girls nights. You know she drinks a little, probably gets flirted with, and maybe has fun with it - but it never really occured to you that it could be a bad thing until one day, before she's going out, you have a big fight over typical stupid stuff and looking back - you were a pretty nasty jerk.

So my question is - from experience - whats the liklihood of cheating and how far does that sort of thing likely go?

If a girl goes out to a club, how likely is it that she cheats if she had a fight right b4 she left?

i was wondering the same thing at the club on friday.... and the answer is very likley.... she had just been in a huge fight with bf and then she got wasted.... she woke up at my house so i guess they will cheat pretty easy

If a girl goes out to a club, how likely is it that she cheats if she had a fight right b4 she left?

highly likely. but depends on the gurl, if shes rational - then she prolly won't cheat.

If a girl goes out to a club, how likely is it that she cheats if she had a fight right b4 she left?

I dont think she will cheat on you. If you guys had a fight she might even be a little miserable and not have a good night out and just end up wanting to come home and make up.. Try not to think about it... it would be pretty spiteful to cheat on you over a few heated words..

whenever i have been in that situation, i usually dont enjoy myself and find that i am home before i know it...

If a girl goes out to a club, how likely is it that she cheats if she had a fight right b4 she left?

My ex did. we had a fight and like an hour later she was screwing another guy. So they are capable of it. But if your girl is mature and loves you, it is much less likely.

If a girl goes out to a club, how likely is it that she cheats if she had a fight right b4 she left?

If she was just angry at you and still loves you a lot, then she won't cheat. I'm hoping if she had any self-respect, she'd break it off with you first and then go about her merry way...

I can understand wanting to go out and blow off steam...but while she's there, she may just be talking about you and how much she misses you and how she wants it to work.

If a girl goes out to a club, how likely is it that she cheats if she had a fight right b4 she left?

Depends on the woman, I suppose. I know women that actually would behave themselves... unfortunately for me, I've never dated them.

If a girl goes out to a club, how likely is it that she cheats if she had a fight right b4 she left?

Well from a girls point, I saw unlikley. I have gone out plenty of times and never cheated even when mad at my boyfriend. I know I will get over being mad and I dont want to have those lingering regrets in the back of my mind. But in all reality it really depends on the girl. I know a girl who cheats all the time so sorry of this does not help but if you trust her dont stop just cause u were a jerk, just say sorry and try not to let it happen again.

If a girl goes out to a club, how likely is it that she cheats if she had a fight right b4 she left?

閳?It depends on her and your relationship. Just because you were a jerk and she went to a club doesnt mean that she will cheat. Do you trust her? If so then you have nothing to worry about. She will prolly be heated about the fight all night and she may dance %26amp; have a good time, but because ya'll are together something will pull her back from going any further.... [[most likely]]. Good Luck!

If a girl goes out to a club, how likely is it that she cheats if she had a fight right b4 she left?

Your question is quite interesting and real. From my own point of view, the day I quarrel with my partner is not ideal for thinking of another woman. It is only when I am happy and stable emotionally that I can think of fun even with a new person. So, if your partner is like me, rest assured that no 'serious' cheating did take place. However, there could be an attempt towards 'teaching the other partner a sense' or scoring even with him/her, such attempts are usually half-hearted and usually with no serious commitments. It is an irony of life that one enjoys something better when it is more forbidden. Cheating could be less forbidden in a quarrel situation and more forbidden in conditions of mutual joviality.

I don閳ユ獩 know what to do please help girls?

My confidence is very low right now . . . I閳ユ獡 19 years old, I閳ユ獡 a virgin, I just got braces on a year ago and have a year more to go, I never had tooth to the right of my front tooth and when I got my braces on they extended it out. . . and now you can see a big gap in my teeth ( I閳ユ獡 getting an implant some time when my teeth are ready), I have pretty bad acne right now and am trying everything . . . everything to fix it, and everyone says that I don閳ユ獩 look at all like I閳ユ獡 19, maybe 16 閳?17. Beside from all of that lol I閳ユ獡 not a bad looking guy. I think the only reason I閳ユ獡 so hard on myself about my looks right now is because my two best friends right now are twins and every girl that I have known thinks that there hot and ****, when I go to the clubs with them I get compared to them. I have had girlfriends before and there not bad looking girls but that was when I didn閳ユ獩 have all these problems . . . I don閳ユ獩 know what to do please help?!!

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I don閳ユ獩 know what to do please help girls?

well maybe this is a time for you to focus on the person you are, not on how you look (and you are cute btw)----who you are is more important- you may know this already, but not to the extent where you understand it if you are all worked up over how you look. if all you want to do is pick chicks up at clubs then i guess you're out of luck- b/c they are there for vain reasons as well...

all these things will pass- braces will come off soon enough- use proactive-

you know, you could actually meet a girl (not at a lame club) who would like you for you not caring about something as shallow as braces----take this time to focus on who you are- not what you look like- you'll attract the right girl- not some dizzy b*tch who's trying to get the twin's attention...

I don閳ユ獩 know what to do please help girls?

don't go out with those handsome buggers!! go out on your own

I don閳ユ獩 know what to do please help girls?

RELAX sweetie! Everyone goes through a stage like this .. it's called growing up! One day you'll look back on this and laugh .. til then keep doing what you've been doing .. being you! Self confidence is majorly attractive ya know!

I don閳ユ獩 know what to do please help girls?

Don't be to hard on yourself as you said you had gfs before. You are only 19 . Phases phases

I don閳ユ獩 know what to do please help girls?

I don't think that you should put yourself down like this. You are not ugly and girls like that are not really seeing you for who you are. That is there loss and if they compare you just tell them that you are you and that you are not them. It is that simple.

I don閳ユ獩 know what to do please help girls?

Continue to go through the process with your teeth and skin, because it will go away as long as you keep taking care of yourself.

I don閳ユ獩 know what to do please help girls?

You can get some medicine at dermatologist. Have your mom take you if you are under their insurance.l looked at your pic and you don't look bad. Sex is not everything.

I don閳ユ獩 know what to do please help girls?

Well stop going out with the twins until you are gorgeous again, or learn to live with it, In about a year you will have yor teeth fixed and your acne should clear up by then, SO, wait a year,

I don閳ユ獩 know what to do please help girls?

Hey looks don't matter that much. Braces won't kill you and alot of guys have acne. And your really not ugly. Really u should have way more confidence : ))

I don閳ユ獩 know what to do please help girls?

go to a doc about ur acne and try to no smile with ur teeth. joke around and say ur braces are grills lol, idk what to do about ur friends. if they are good friend ask them to hook you up with someone

I don閳ユ獩 know what to do please help girls?

your only 19 and your sorting out the teeth--good,it will take time but will be worth it-time flys! acne-doc can perscribe tablets can can really make a difference. confidence--you are dealing with much more than your pals and this will make you stronger when your all fixed.virgin? better that than risking your future health[and repretation]..girls are NOT impressed with boys who sleep around AT ALL!

I don閳ユ獩 know what to do please help girls?

you need to first not be so hard on yourself i know its easier said than done but things get better in life trust me...you should worry about what you need to do for yourself because according to maslow in psychology you need to satisfy your needs before anyone else. the part about being compared to your friends, i would not let that bother me because your ur own person and not 2 people are the complete same and no one is better than anyone so relax dont stress, besides if you think about it this way: if the girls dont want you now than its their lost cuz you may be the best thing out there to them later on and they wouldnt know if they didnt try, right? besides theres always good and bad times in a relationship and girls and guys today only want the good but you need to deal with the bad too. well i hope i helped you a lil...good luck

I don閳ユ獩 know what to do please help girls?

well about they bracers yoo wont have them all your life and the acne will aventually go away its probly only really bad at the moment because boys are still developing and maturing at this age and even till they are bout 25 and girls stop at 16. and bout your best friends i wouldnt worry bout them everyone is different!

I don閳ユ獩 know what to do please help girls?

your a pretty hot guy if u dnt mind me saying so. to be honest i think that if you wait it out you'll find someone that you really want to be with - u sed u have pretty bad acne.. i suggest trying something that contains witch hazel, as its great for the skin.. and braces are way hott on guys. don't worry too much about it, the more you think about it, the more a girl will notcice. I hope this helps.

I don閳ユ獩 know what to do please help girls?

ur a cute guy, dont worry about them. every time i see my stepsisters, theyre "better than me" in every way possible, but once im on my own, all confidence is back. youll find a girl soon. try going out by yourself, or with other friends, and youll catch one in no time!

I don閳ユ獩 know what to do please help girls?

first of all////you look handsome to me :)

you need to have confidence in yourself....never compare yourself or let people compare you...let them love you for who YOU are :)

dont use too many products on your face.......it will only worsen it...use proactiv on your face and only that...i wouldn't worry about the tooth thing either....seriously....you need to get over the twins cuz you seem like a really sweet guy and in the end, that truly counts.........just make sure before you go out you looks totally clean. like freshly shaven, TWO eyebrwos (not one! (not that you have that)) and be yourself...and DONT cover up your smile becasue than people will think your depressed,....trust me.....good luck!

I don閳ユ獩 know what to do please help girls?

i think that you look good in your myspace pic. but the thing is even though you may not feel handsome now, later when you blossom you are gonna get all the good women, cuz these girls that ignore you because of your looks now are just vampid and silly and slutty. so not worth your time. and most women are attracted to confidence in guys not always their looks. so pull yourself together and build up your confidence cuz no one else can do that for you, but yourself. you have to believe that you are worth someone's time and if you don't show a girl that, they won't see it. chin up and man up buddy, you'll be fine.

I don閳ユ獩 know what to do please help girls?

There is someone out there for everyone. At 19, you still have plenty of time. I myself was a late bloomer. I lacked confidence growing up, was flat as a board and I wore glasses. Now I am 28, with a nice figure, I am proportionate, and I am admired by a lot of my friends. It takes time. Do what you can. Personally, I think braces are cute on a guy. When I opened your page I expected to see someone who was hideous. You are not even close to that. You're cute :)

I don閳ユ獩 know what to do please help girls?

you sound pretty low! I bet youre not always being compared to these twins, you'r confidence is low. what you need to do is sort out ourself first, so go maybe to your gp and get them to pescribe something for your acne, and braces aren't to bad! every day throughout the day tell yourself, you're awesome, you're hot, you're cool! if you belive it others will aswell! some one told me a few years ago, others only see me the way i see myself, at first i was like "yeah right thats the stupidist s**t i've ever heard!", but i started to think more confidently, i took up stuff, i hung out with new people and i feel so much better in myself!

And don't compare yourself to others! dont think "oh god i look so awful today!" think "wow my eyes look great today(err) "!! every time you think something negative, think of 2 positive things about yourself!

um sorry i kinda ramble a bit and my paragraphs get lost so sorry if this makes no sense! x

I don閳ユ獩 know what to do please help girls?

u cant compare urself 2 ur friends bcuz ur your own person

ur not bad looking and i'm guessing u have a good personality so just think positively--u have friends (according 2 ur myspace) and u will grow out of ur akward fase!!

I don閳ユ獩 know what to do please help girls?

first of all I think its ok that you're still a virgin. sometimes I wish i would have waited. I was only 14. Anyway I know it sounds cliche but beauty is only skin deep and the right person is out there and they are going to be with you for you. I know it sounds lame but I hope this helps some and keep your head high. things will be better

I don閳ユ獩 know what to do please help girls?

Hey.

Well, I went through everything you just said ...but worse, and I turned out okay. I had braces and acne and NO GUYS ever asked me out in high school. Time cures all wounds, eventually my braces came off, and then my face cleared up, and then to make things better I started using proactive which helped 1000x's better. Your story reminds me of what I went through so much, but in the end when you make the drastic changes (braces off and pimples gone) these people you compare yourself to now may not look as good. Then you'll be the person THEY will compare themselves too, bcz this is only a temporary stage, they're 'having their day' and good time now, but then so will you too, and they may feel the way you do. Also, all these things make you a better person, cuz it teaches you how to treat people and not be stuck up.

Why are girls so gullible? and why r guys mean enough to lead them on?

i'm not kidding literally ALL girls are soo gullible...they actually belive they're man when he says i love you when he just wants some and trust them not to do stuff like flirt w/ other girls, strip clubs and just a bunch of other ****!...i mean who could seriosly be tht stupid to not know guys r pervs even guys know other guys r..it's how unforutnately they're made..the only girls who know the truth r sluts who try to steal ur bf (and it works since guys can't help themselves)...n i'm not talking about bad experiences but guys u know you're like tht don't lie...so back to my question why are girls so gullible and why are guys mean enough to lead the girl on?...and for those sluts who try to steal other ppl's man WHY do u do it??

Why are girls so gullible? and why r guys mean enough to lead them on?

its not that girls are gullible, its just that girls like all that drama stuff, thats why they keep going back for more

Why are girls so gullible? and why r guys mean enough to lead them on?

NOT ALL GIRLS ARE GULLIBLE OR S,L,U,T,S GUYS ARE THE A...S..S..W..H...O..L...ES

Why are girls so gullible? and why r guys mean enough to lead them on?

Ok not all girls are gullible if a guy tells me he loves me he is not going to get anything from me!!! and buys that do that dont need anyone in there life

Why are girls so gullible? and why r guys mean enough to lead them on?

hey! sluts arent the only ones who no!! maybe theyer slut in desgies! or maybe all the grils you no are prisses and stupid!

Why are girls so gullible? and why r guys mean enough to lead them on?

Stop trusting guys, until he shows you that he can be trusted, and because I have such a boring life and am tired all the time, guys try and get with me, like do the horizonal tango, but I have figured I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life. No guy is worth going for it, what ever it maybe. I'm just sick of the dating scene.

Why are girls so gullible? and why r guys mean enough to lead them on?

For guys it's an ego boost to have that kind of control (it's definately true for me and I'm female). But honestly not all guys are like that and not all women are easy catches. As for women who "steal" other people's men, I don't think there is such a thing because it takes two and if he's wiling to cheat then he isn't much of a man in the first place.

You seem to have posted this out of anger. I suggest that you focus your thoughts and energy on the type of guy you want rather than to dwell on past hurts (Law of Attraction).