Handsome Thug vs. Man Skin Rug? Why do the "bad guys" get the good girl and the good guys

What constitutes a good man? Well, word is that they are usually respectful, don鈥檛 push to hard, and also probably didn鈥檛 exist back in the prehistoric days where you鈥檇 club a woman over the head. After further review, it seems as though nice guys also have a lot of patience. This is usually where things start to get shady for the nice guy. The 鈥淗ave your cake and eat it too!鈥?factor comes into play. The woman knowingly tramples over Mr. Nice Guy like Simba鈥檚 Dad in a wilder beast stampede! Sad. However, the biggest difference between that lion and Mr. Nice Guy is that the nice guy always gets back up, brushes himself off, and tries again, Dedication. You have to admire that in a funny way though. Does the nice guy know when enough is enough? On the other hand, the 鈥淏ad Guy鈥?that we all know as 鈥淭hugs鈥?usually don鈥檛 care what his woman thinks; actually he does the exact opposite of what his female asks of him.

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Handsome Thug vs. Man Skin Rug? Why do the "bad guys" get the good girl and the good guys get walked over?

I don't need more info about this, I know allllll to well what the deep-seeded reasons for this are. Your smart, so I'll waste my time explaining yet again. Its about PURPOSE, I know, I know your not understaind what I'm saying, let me explain. Nice guy's purpose is the woman, I'm I right? Now that would make ANYONE very, very INSECURE!!! Because the fact is most people, espacially our society's ladies are not the best people to fellow, not the best people to make your purpose in life, ever heard how no ones perfect? Yep thats the reason. That aside when a "Nice Guy" does this he puts the lady in a very.... HIGH ANXIETY position were she is the one calling the big shots, and therefore she's the one whose going to feel more then the "nice guy" BAD when a choice goes bad. Also were lost buddy, making a relationship based on just one of the individuals is a bad, bad choice. Now on to the "Bad Boy" See the bad boy usually alwasy calls the shots, he because HER purpose in the relationship. AAALLLLL of a sudden she's in your position! And mister bad's in hers. HE does a better job then here with the "Nice guy" because he has a purpose thats pretty f'in simple, that she can follow, that keeps most of their poor heads from hurting with all the indescion and regerts she had with the "Nice guy" usually around the ideals of sex and drugs. Works really good for the "Bad boy" because its simple, its easy, and it fulfills the most primitive thing needed for a relationship to work, hence YOU NEED A PURPOSE OUTSIDE THE RELATIONSHIP!!! ANYTHING!!! OUTSIDE LOVEING JUST FOR THE SAKE OF LOVE!!! So in a sick and twisted way he is actually creating a better relationship then the "Nice Guy" who just sits around worshiping the girls ****. And proves beyond a doubt how important it is to have a purpose to a relationship. So really if the "Nice Guy" would feel pretty confident that he knows a great way to live life, and get the lady to see that and join him on that mission (church, family, helping poor african's eat, and feeding homeless people) he can be just as attractive to the lady as the "Bad boy". So I hope you see its the fact that the "Nice Guys" are putting the female in a very anxieious position because people don't know what they want, they need someone to sort of push them in a direction. The bad boy accomplishes this goal, while mister nice just sits there and ask, well what do you what to do? Purpose is powerful....