Monday, December 28, 2009

Whats Wrong With Girls and How Do Us Guys Approach You?

I go to clubs and unless the girls there with a date Im noticing that a lot of girls end up dancing alone all night.Do they just want to dance with there friends or are the guys tierd of getting rejected by them so they leave them alone?Thats my thing.Ill watch a girl I like for a while to see how she treats guys approaching her and a lot of them dont seem bad looking but If I notice she keeps rejecting them,I wont even bother.



Asking to dance doesnt always seem to work so should we just talk to you by the bar or something?What signs do we look for when you girls are interested.Sometimes Ill make eye contact with a girl but I dont know if shes checking me out to or if shes wondering:"Whats this guy looking at".Ive had my share of girlfriends and have had girls approach me so I must not be that bad looking.Sometimes not showing your interested works but its not gonna get you knowhere if you only have 1 night.What to do?



Whats Wrong With Girls and How Do Us Guys Approach You?

Some of us go to have a good time with our friends only. (Girls night out) We get hit on so much in bars/clubs that we just dismiss it. Usually, guys will glance at us for a while, but they only get the nerve to come to us when they've had a few drinks and feeling good. I think it's because of the rejection they feel they will get. Maybe try to confront them before you've had a few drinks. Keep your posture, feel confident, and smile. Don't look down below the neck, and just introduce yourself instead of giving us a line or 2 or 3. That doesn't work especially in a club. Maybe after talking for a little while ask us to dance. Can't you all tell if we're interested. We usually smile and flip our head/hear just slightly. We sometimes play with the straw in our drinks. Just don't be afraid to ask for fear of rejection. Everyone, even girls (once in a while) get rejected. It's all a part of it. You may be rejected 20 times before you find someone who will give you the time of day, but don't let that stop you.



Whats Wrong With Girls and How Do Us Guys Approach You?

you guys doesn't understand taht what girls need is to be safe with someone and loved and to be honest i don't think how she could that way when she barely know u i mean the only thing that guys loog for is sex : a lot of sex so it doesn't matter with who but girls worry the most about the qualty of sex and i don't really believe that she will find her needs in a man that she barely know



Whats Wrong With Girls and How Do Us Guys Approach You?

leave go to the clubs :d



Whats Wrong With Girls and How Do Us Guys Approach You?

Why do you guys all think there is something wrong with girls? There's nothing wrong with us. Some nights we do go out with the girls and don't want to dance with guys. We actually went out to hang out with just the girls. So if we brush you off...that may be why. If you make eye contact with a girl, you should be able to tell if she's checking you out or thinking "what's this guy looking at". The two looks are completely different. If you just talk to us by the bar that show us that you're not just trying to dance and then have that lead to taking us home. If you talk to us it shows that you want to get to know us. Just keep trying guy. Don't take it personally if a girl brushes you off while she's dancing because more than likely she went out that night just to get out and dance with the girls.

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