Should I let my boyfriend dance with other girls at clubs?

So here's my situation. I've been seeing a guy for six months and we are very serious with each other. Right now we are doing a long distance relationship (I'm in NY, he's in CA).

I knew before we started dating that he goes to clubs frequently and likes asking girls who look lonely if they want to dance. He feels bad when he sees a somewhat unattractive girl having a bad time while their friends are partying. He doesn't get their numbers or anything. It's sweet that he does this, but it makes me upset that he still does it even when in a relationship with me.

I appreciate the fact that he's honest, but I'm bothered because, for example, he said he wouldn't feel comfortable if I went to a strip club. Because of this, I would never go to one. He knows I don't appreciate him dancing with other girls, but he still does it. He's being a gentlemen to these other girls, but I don't feel like he's being one to me. Am I being irrational about this? What should I do?

Should I let my boyfriend dance with other girls at clubs?

I understand I would think that 2 but you really have to let it be. The fact that he is honest to you means alot and if he's going to do something he will do it anyway.

Should I let my boyfriend dance with other girls at clubs?

Hell no i'd beat the crap out of any guy dancing with my girl so i guess the same applies to you, start punching people.

Should I let my boyfriend dance with other girls at clubs?

as long as he doesn't hit on the girls then just let him dance with them

Should I let my boyfriend dance with other girls at clubs?

let him dance as long as he doesn't work the bump and grind on girls at a club or touches a girl's @$$. He can dance with whoever he wants and he seems like a great guy.

Should I let my boyfriend dance with other girls at clubs?

i think thats sweet that he does that but u should feel that u have been with him long enough that he will never cheat on u

Should I let my boyfriend dance with other girls at clubs?

trust him i guess

he doesnt want YOU personally going because he respects you

if you want keep tabs on him and just make sure he never does anything serious

personally i would never let my bf go to a strip club but eh...

Should I let my boyfriend dance with other girls at clubs?

No way. So basically your man is dancing with these other girl just to be "generous". He has you he does not have to do that . There will be other guy's who will dance with these chicks. He should not use that as an excuse.

Should I let my boyfriend dance with other girls at clubs?

i'd be like, "this is NOT an open relationship and while i let the fact that you dance with other girls at the club slide, i am not about to conform to the double-standards of today's society. I think that if you should be able to do things like that, i should too, EQUALLY!!!! So get with the program or lose it, bucko. How do you like them apples?" lol

Should I let my boyfriend dance with other girls at clubs?

I don't think it is a good idea,

but if you trust him...

and know him very well=

you might

Should I let my boyfriend dance with other girls at clubs?

I don't think that if he's in a realstionship with you that he should be in the club grinding with other girls. He makes you think his intentions are good by saying he dances with the lonely not so pretty girls. That's some horse crap if I ever heard of it. But on the flip side of things do you ever go out? Do you ever have drinks with guys or dance and talk with guys? If you truly don't think he's cheating or getting numbers then I would let it go.

Should I let my boyfriend dance with other girls at clubs?

You have good reason to be angry or sad. How do you know you can trust him? How do you know he isn't asking for their number, if he's a long way away? I don't know if I could handle it. I guess the real question is....

Do you really trust this guy?

And he still isn't willing to stop after you told him not to?

To me that just seems wrong. I know if my boyfriend did that I'd be pissed, but thats just my opinion. If I were you, I'd talk to him and tell him how upset it makes you. Hope everything works out.

Should I let my boyfriend dance with other girls at clubs?

Do not let him do this. The only other girls I would let my boyfriend dance with are my own friends. Doesn't matter if he's a trustworthy guy. The fact of the matter is, that it makes YOU uncomfortable and he should therefore respect your feelings and not dance with other girls. How would he like it if you were a lady to other men that appeared lonely in a club and danced with them, eh?

Also, if a girl seems lonely in a club and your boyfriend asked her to danced...that girl might start hitting on your man because she'll take his gesture as him being interested in her. You don't want other girls hitting on your boyfriend do you? Stop his behavior right now!

Should I let my boyfriend dance with other girls at clubs?

If you are uncomfortable with this... then it definitely is a problem... and he is disrespecting you by doing so....

but the question is..... Why are you uncomfortable with him dancing with other women??? ... If you trust and love him as you say you do, you should be secure with yourself and your relationship to let him dance and have a good time...

I dont see anything wrong with just 'dancing'...

it doesn't mean he loves you any less

Let him have some fun....as long as it doesnt cross the line, or is overly-sexual..

Definitely keep communicating on these things....

BUT all in all.... if you feel you can not handle him dancing with other women..... then he shouldn't. point blank.