My bf works as waiter in strip club. i trust him but i feel wierd about the naked girls thing. is th

basically i knew that he worked in a strip club before i we started dating. i was ok about it then. Now that i love him just the thought of him being next to those girls is driving me crazy. I know that he would never cheat on me. Its just a job. But i still feel like ****. We always argue about it. these girls are completely naked and he sees them 5 out of 7 days. my male friends have said its the best job in the world for a guy. that has made me feel worse. i really love this guy. He earns good money there i dont wanna ask him to leave plus i dont think i have the right to. I always knew where he works and ive told him i trust him. So, im kinda stuck. I need some advice on what to do 'cause im getting really stressed out. its all i seem to think about when he goes to work.

My bf works as waiter in strip club. i trust him but i feel wierd about the naked girls thing. is that normal?

I don't think it is wierd, but you are either going to have to accept it or get an new bf.

My bf works as waiter in strip club. i trust him but i feel wierd about the naked girls thing. is that normal?

you knew what you were getting into before you started the relationship...so you're stuck...if you love him and trust him leave it alone...if you still feel bad about it maybe you should go down there and hang out...i mean it's a strip club...he's bussing tables...if he was screwing around with them he'd be disgusting cuz they're dirty anyways...so dont fear...if he tells you nothing is going on...you should just trust him...

My bf works as waiter in strip club. i trust him but i feel wierd about the naked girls thing. is that normal?

I agree with Rob. It would bother me a lot too. What if you got a job there?

My bf works as waiter in strip club. i trust him but i feel wierd about the naked girls thing. is that normal?

Ok I know how you feel but let me ask you one question.

If he has worked there and he has not cheated on you, then whats the problem?

Its just a job. Even though I don't think its fair to ask him to leave the job I would say discuss this with him without getting argumentative.

My bf works as waiter in strip club. i trust him but i feel wierd about the naked girls thing. is that normal?

yea i know how you feel sometimes, it is normal to feel that way. your in love! I am in love with my boyfriend and it can be hectic sometimes, but you just got to trust i guess i am talking to my self to bc i have trouble trusting my boy with looking at other girls and stuff but lately i have been letting it go! i guess it is normal for people not really caring when you first go out1 but then it grows so much deeper than that, thats when jeolsy comes. i would just calmly talk to him and see how he would like it if you worked in a place with naked men! how would he feel try to get him to see it in your propesctive, talk calmly. good luck girly! dont be stressed out or mad... being mad is a second gone for happiness