How do i deal with this mean girl???

There is this girl that sits at my lunch table and shes so mean to me. She doesnt like me becuase her friend thinks im annoying. So everyday i sit at lunch talk to my friends and ignore her and she makes some comment like "oh my gawd ur so fat!!" or "i cant beleve how ugly she is" and the worse has been " u have lice!" that she says everyday. i try to ignore it but she goes on and on and on and other ppl start laughing. a couple of times ive said things back to her. I know this is mean and raciest but shes arab and wears a hajob hat thing so i say "At least i have hair" and shell snap back and say "EW im not going to take it off then ill catch lice" or ill say something like " Omg i feel so bad for u. ur mom doesnt pay enough attention to u so u have to make fun of ppl to get attention!" but shell be like "No ur mom is a whore" or something like that. i dont know what to do! i cant move i have no other friends in my lunch bcus the school spilt r grade in 2 lunches. i dont have lice.

12 minutes ago - 3 days left to answer.

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12 minutes ago

if uve ever seen bad girls club shes like Niveen

10 minutes ago

i cant tell a teacher because i alredy ratted 2 girls out for being mean to me recently and the principle and me rnt on good terms becuase of my abseces and grades. so ill be known as a tatlle tale and i dont want to get in trouble for being raciest because ill get in more trouble for that

2 minutes ago

i want to beat her but everytime i say meet me in the parking lot or come in the bathroom and ill kill u she just says something mean like "Ew im not going in the bathroom with u lesbo!"

How do i deal with this mean girl???

Everyone else is right. She is doing this to you because she has low self esteem therefore she has to pick on someone else.

Saying mean things back or beating her up will not help at all.

I prefer what I call the direct approach.

Try to catch her while she is alone, look her straight in the eyes and in a concerned voice say "Why are you so mean to me? I have never done anything to you. Is there something going on in your life?"

More then likely she will be so embarrassed by the direct confrontation that she will think twice before ridiculing you again.

Good luck!

How do i deal with this mean girl???

Say this to her: "You are so cool, can I be your friend?"

How do i deal with this mean girl???

you wasting your time on her leave her be stay from around her try to avoid her if you can

How do i deal with this mean girl???

You have to just ignore it. Like if it gets really, really bad, just tell your parents, because they can do a hell-of-a lot more then your princable can. I always hated kids like that, and I still do. But kids will be kids, and if it gets them "popular", or noticed, they'll do it. But, if you want to make it interesting, you can always talk shi* to her too. Haha, hope i helpled. Happy Holidays

Raze

How do i deal with this mean girl???

Say:

Yes I have lice you fuhking cohksucker! I got it from your dad's hairy dik.

How do i deal with this mean girl???

Wait for her afterschool, and beat the freaking sh*t out of her. I mean like, bad. Make sure she is alone... Leave her crying...ANd make sure you tell her that if she annoys u again, ull litteraly kill her...

(Dont use any knives and don't get her killed...)

How do i deal with this mean girl???

Dont you have to go and be stupid somewhere else?

Oh wow, ur cool all u can say everyday to me is that i have lice...get a life *****!

Why r u talking about me *****?

I thought u said u were too good to talk about me, why is it that i hear my name coming from ur stinky mouth ya brat?

I would rather have a fat azz than no azz at all.

i feel so bad for u, u have to make fun of me, so that u get attention... poor thing

hope it works

and show her who's boss!

How do i deal with this mean girl???

Just let her rave on because the problem is not yours but hers....the more you bite the more she'll give you.....Just dismiss her as the lil shite is not worth the energy....she'll go away eventually

How do i deal with this mean girl???

punch her

How do i deal with this mean girl???

just ignor her

How do i deal with this mean girl???

I remember being bullied at school and although my mum told me to ignore the bullies it was really hard to do when they were in my face all of the time. In the end I learnt how to have a smart-mouthed reply for everything they said - and they got sick of me not being upset and ended up leaving me alone.

I also understand why you don't want to involve your principle or other teachers because of conflicts in the past - but is there an adult you trust who you can talk to about this? They don't need to have all the answers, just be there for you and listen to your problems.

Apart from that, just practice looking unimpressed when she talks to you or about you. DON"T get mad or pick a fight because that will only encourage her. Next time she mouths of try saying something like...

"Oh, sorry were you talking to me? I could see your gums flapping, but presumed you were getting ready for your hot date with (choose a guy you know she doesn't like) tonight"

How do i deal with this mean girl???

My daughter has had a similar problem only this person was mean to everyone. In the end she ignored him.Move away from this person, sit somewhere else.Comtinual harassment is an offence and you should not have to pit up with it.Physica lviolemce never solves any tthing. You can ignore her comments, or come up with retorts or report that you are continually being verbally harassed.

How do i deal with this mean girl???

u have 3 choices

=sit somewhere else

=stop being annoying

=or (best choice) go to her and tell her parents what kind of naughty words and things shes said

i think that choice is guarentted results

Arabaic parents are uasully very strict abt EVERYTHING

its worth a try

How do i deal with this mean girl???

1. Be the NICEST person in the world to her.

It'll confuse the **** out of her, and she'll let up.

2. Just simply ignore her; don't even look in her direction. When she says something; you didn't hear it, not at all, just continue on.

3. Just kick her sorry *** :/

It doesn't have to be planned; at my school it's pretty much "the next time I see your sorry ***" in the halls, lunch, bathroom, etc.

4. Dump your lunch on her :D

How do i deal with this mean girl???

TELL YOUR MOM DAD OR BOTH WHAT IS GOING ON . DO NOT RESORT TO FIGHTING . I UNDERSTAND THAT SHE MAKES YOU ANGRY ENOUGH TO KILL HER AND ALSO THAT THAT IS A FIGURE OF SPEECH BUT DON'T SAY THAT. PEOPLE WILL BLOW ANYTHING OUT OF PROPORTION .

I'M SORRY THIS IS HAPPENING TO YOU BUT A LOT OF GIRLS GO THROUGH THIS . GIRLS THAT DO THINGS LIKE THIS HAVE TO USE OTHERS THIS WAY TO MAKE UP FOR THERE SHORTCOMINGS . I DON'T THINK SHE IS TOTALLY HAPPY WITH HERSELF .

How do i deal with this mean girl???

Seems to be this person has a low self esteem. People with low self esteems pick on others or put them down to lift themselves up.

Further she is doing it for attention. She calls you a fat ___ and her friends laugh. You get angry and make a comeback and she makes one. So she gets attention: Laughter from her friends and your anger.

She sees it bothers you and keeps doing it.

So you can try acting like it doesn't bother you. See if that works.

If it doesn't work after a week, try this...

Walk up to her and....

Punch her in the face? No....

Give her a hug.

Yes I am serious. Ok I know. I know. It is more tempting to punch her face in...but here me out.

More than likely she is feeling terrible about herself. She has pry been picked on and harrassed herself. Maybe at home her parents are mean to her or she has an annoying sibling. Maybe she's been through a divorce or someone has died.

She will pry say something mean and snide....but I bet on the inside she will be ashamed and shocked.

So do nice things for her....I know it wont be easy and that is pry the LAST thing you would want to do and I dont blame you

But offer her your desserts or pens and pencils when she needs them and dont ask for them back (even if they are favorite ones).

If she pushes you on the ground and you see her fall, offer to help her up.

If she has to pee and you have been waiting, let her go first.

If she calls you mean names.....call her nice ones....like Why you have such a beautiful hajob or whatever. nice and not sarcastic.

Do nice things and say nice things....and she will pry at first be a jerk and snide....but keep doing it no matter what she says or does and see if she doesnt turn around or at least back off.

Cause if I was a jerk like that and someone was nice to me even though I was so mean....I would be ashamed and either say Im sorry or I would leave the person alone....

Give it a shot....most people dont do it cause it is hard....but you got nothing to lose and then you can say you tried at least.

Repay her evil for good. Who knows? She might come to you and say sorry and want to be your friend....

Decision ultimately is yours.

How do i deal with this mean girl???

kill her with kindness! i know it's hard but just ignore it and eventually she'll stop and her friends will realize how much of a jerk she is. just dont worry about it. she's either jealous or she has no life to go out of her way and make you miserable, so if anyones feeling bad for anyone you should feel bad for her! hope this helped! [=

How do i deal with this mean girl???

i have been through it 2 and i am still being made fun of and i just say u r so funny u could be a comedian one day all u have to do is stand there and if that doesnt work just say its mind over matter i dont mind and u dont matter and if that doesnt work then just walk off and say what ever u can say what u want and i dont really care cause it does not bother me!!!!!!